Losing Kath

Love lost, read and found

Kathy’s Cross

Most people are so continually conditioned to be fixated on what’s black or white, that they never think or want to talk about all the colours of the spectrum that … Continue reading

June 13, 2017 · Leave a comment

“Dear Aimée, …”

Dear Aimée, As you prepare to make your Confirmation, my mind goes back to five years ago when your sister Hannah was preparing to do the same, and mummy was … Continue reading

June 10, 2017 · Leave a comment

Message in a bottle

The chronology of events leading up to Kath’s funeral is something that still has my head in a spin and throws my thoughts all out of kilter. Naturally those were … Continue reading

December 24, 2015 · Leave a comment

Only time separates the dead from the living.

You can’t possibly know in life, when you are ready to move on or what if the time comes, that even means.When you are happy and in love having built … Continue reading

August 23, 2015 · Leave a comment

Being touched by a barge pole

As a widowed father who was once happily married, being touched with a barge pole was always the furthest thing from ever being on my mind.The worse part of being … Continue reading

July 22, 2015 · Leave a comment

A Dying Wish

A wish when you make one, whether you believe in it or not, is still something deep down in our hearts we hope over some time will eventually come true. … Continue reading

May 25, 2015 · Leave a comment

Losing Kath – The Second Year

When I first wrote the piece titled ‘Losing Kath – the First Year’, I described at the beginning how it felt that the dust was starting to settle and how … Continue reading

December 30, 2014 · Leave a comment