Losing Kath

Love lost, read and found

To have and to hold, and to never grow old

I don’t know why it’s taken me such a long time to decide to sit down and slowly tell my losing Jessica story more consciously focussed on doing so than … Continue reading

December 18, 2017 · Leave a comment

The things we do for love

I once had a baby daughter we called Jessica Maria who was born on December 8th, approximately three weeks early. Those of you in the know, might also know that … Continue reading

December 8, 2017 · Leave a comment

Us ‘mere’ mortals

The telling of losing Kath from our lives have had me exploring too many accounts of uncanny coincidences and of shared anniversaries and repeating patterns through our lives, and yet … Continue reading

November 13, 2015 · Leave a comment

Finding Emily

As the date for Kath’s funeral loomed, I had this uneasy feeling deep in my instinct telling me what I already knew, something somewhere was being forgotten. The feeling was … Continue reading

June 14, 2015 · Leave a comment

God be with you and never Goodbye

Remember remember the 5th of November, gunpowder, treason and plot… the night came reaping, when all else were sleeping, taking of love, the whole lot. Back in that season, fated … Continue reading

November 7, 2014 · Leave a comment

Tying up loose ends

The need to tie up loose ends never feels more pressing than reaching the turn in the path you know will lead you to staring the big bad wolf right … Continue reading

October 19, 2014 · Leave a comment

Lobster for two and losing you.

Who do we blame in life when picking a fight with God proves a mission to far? How do you ever find course to challenge doctors who cared for your … Continue reading

April 12, 2014 · 3 Comments